Tween Asks for “Mom Time”
Yvette was in 7th grade and an independent 12 year old daughter of a single mom, Marianne, who worked full time. They had been through a lot together over the years and had flourished. Yvette
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The value of saying “What do you think?”
Whenever you are explaining something to a child there are times it is useful to ask, “What do you think?” This simple question can help you know if your little one understands, agrees or disagrees
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Helping a Teen Through a Big Transition
as seen in in Brooklyn Family Magazine and on NY Parenting.com Dear Sharon, My husband and I have recently separated. Our children are of varied ages and the young ones are dealing with it well.
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Things to Keep in Mind When Saying “No.”
When to say no and when to let things go is one of the most complicated parts of parenting. Here are some ideas that can help. 1. Use the word “no” wisely, pick your battles.
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Don’t Give Up!
Will was an easily frustrated 8 year old who loved rock climbing even though it wasn’t easy for him to do. His parents took him climbing whenever they could but were drained and concerned by
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Help, My 10 Year Old Won’t Sleep Alone
as seen in Brooklyn Family Magazine and on NYParenting.com Dear Sharon, Our 10 year old is having trouble going to sleep alone in his room. What should we do? He comes into our bed a
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Empathy can sometimes help more than solutions
When a child is upset or confronting a problem parents sometimes offer solutions too quickly. When mom or dad can provide a compassionate and empathetic ear it can help a child vent their frustrations, feel
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Help, My Child Won’t Walk – Stuck in a Stroller
As seen on NYParenting.com Dear Sharon, My son is five and he still wants to be pushed in a stroller. We want him to walk and try to leave it at home but he throws
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Encouraging Children
Sometimes children are reluctant to do activities that they will eventually enjoy. It can be an important self esteem booster when parents help their children overcome their resistance even if young people get upset when
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Losing Your Temper
All parents lose their tempers when trying to communicate with their children. If you can find a way to give yourself time to think before responding it can help. Even counting to ten or stepping
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