Archive for the Common Sense Tip Category
Words Don’t Always Work for Children
Sometimes it is hard for children to express themselves in words. A grunt, sigh or exasperated gesture sometimes can communicate enough to move past the moment.
Crying
Some children need to “have a good cry” when they are upset. If a parent can let the cry “run its course”, reacting with care rather than interference, sometimes a child can feel and act
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Parental Worries
All parents worry as they juggle the many responsibilities and decisions involved in helping a child grow into a healthy adult. It is important for Moms and Dads to take a break from the worry
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Preparing Children for Disappointment at the Holidays
With pocketbooks stretched and wish lists that include items that are not acceptable to parents it helps to tell children before presents are opened that they will not be getting the much desired ______ this
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Arguing in Front of Children
Children can become overwhelmed and worried when their parents fight with each other in front of them. This is especially true if the disagreements are about how to handle a young one’s behavior. It is
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One Way to Avoid Power Battles
“You are a bad Mommy!” “I hate you Daddy!” These phrases are sometimes said when children are upset with their Mom or Dad. Parents of course are often alarmed or hurt by such powerful emotions.
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The Value of Role Reversals
Sometimes playing games that reverse the role of parent and child can be fun and lighten tension producing tasks. For example if your child hates to have their hair washed letting them wash your hair
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An Idea to Help an Uncommunicative Child
If a child won’t talk about something verbally sometimes they are willing to do so “in writing.” Setting up a little mailbox in your home for short “discussions” can sometimes be fun and help. I
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When Can “Time Outs” Work?
“Time outs” can work best when they offer a “cooling off” period for child and/or parent. If someone can get “their head on straight” from a break in the upheaval then usually things get better.
Does Your Partner Arrive Home from Work Later than You Would Like?
Many Moms an Dads arrive home late from work. This can leave partners alone to handle dinner, homework, bed time, cranky young ones and and general housework. Parental patience can understandably “run thin” under these
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